Throughout any conflict, her abiding goal has consistently been to avoid passing judgement. The idea of casting blame has never crossed her mind. Instead of pointing fingers, her focus has been on uncovering underlying issues. Her conversations don’t dwell on the concepts of right and wrong but rather strive for a more transcendent pursuit of enlightenment and mutual understanding.
Their continued cohabitation in the midst of discontentment births a fundamental question of her presence in this relationship. “Those words” make her ponder her place in his thoughts, wondering who she truly is in his mind. Irrespective of the persona she is given, she acknowledges her inability to control his perceptions.
Her only agency lies in safeguarding the sanctity of her soul and her heart. She’ll exert effort for mutual understanding, but she will no longer resort to defending herself to disprove unfavorable characterizations. She’s come to realize that previous efforts suffice.
Don’t succumb to fear when others wrong you. You are not a victim. Righteousness bestows upon individuals the unassailable fortitude and indomitable resilience necessary to weather life’s trials.
Begin life at forty 
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